2013 is going by so fast omgosh! It's already mid-Sept and as much as I was busy, it still surprises me how time goes by so fast. Too fast right? The first four months of 2013 were the months where I almost lost myself. I lost confidence and trust in myself for stupid reasons, but I tried my best to regain it and eventually did. I started redefining things in a more pessimistic view but ended up accepting the fact that not everyone will try their best to be a part of your life. Some friendships can be toxic; if those "friends" make you angry and frustrated more than they make you happy, why bother? Some relationships can be unhealthy and as soon as you realize it, stay away from it. That's the best thing you can do.
Then, during the winter hols, I truly did some pondering and wondering about my little life. I realized that I was focusing too much on the negativity, and that's when it all started to align... I began to look at the positive side of the coin and saw that there are other people who will want to be in your life and would try their best to achieve this. There are people who love you, with your flaws and will accept you the way you are. Those relationships are healthy and bring positive vibes in your life and in my point of view, those people you should keep them close. Of course those type of relationships won't always be "perfect", there will be the good and the bad times, but eventually if you both know how to get past the bad moments, it will turn out just the way you want. And the toxic relationships, you must ignore them and you will see how different you will feel after that.
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